Tests
Short, playful tests to understand what’s happening in your relationship and what to repair. Everything is computed in your browser; nothing is sent. These are tools for reflection, not a diagnosis — and certainly not a reason for hasty decisions.
🛡️ Marriage prep (dependencies, maturity, readiness) 💍 Marry or part (for dating couples) 📅 Surveys by tenure (5–30 yrs) 🆘 Fight first-aid 💬 Hard-conversation scripts 🎯 Expectations check 🗓️ 30-day challenge ✅ Relationship check-up 🗺️ Marriage map 🧭 Your roadmap 👥 Compare with partner 🃏 Couple cards ▶️ Start here
Marriage resilience test
Measure your marriage’s uptime across the framework layers.
Infatuation or mature love?
The euphoria fades for everyone — that is not a reason to split, but the start of real love.
Which marriage crisis are you in?
Identify the normative crisis and see it as a predictable stage, not a dead end.
Your love language
How you and your partner feel love — so you stop speaking different languages.
The Four Horsemen
Spot the destructive communication habits — each has an antidote.
Resources to recover
Do you have the strength and support to get through the crisis and save the marriage.
Trust: broken or repairable?
After a breach — can trust be rebuilt, and how.
Your attachment style
Why you react as you do in conflict — secure, anxious or avoidant.
Your marriage’s emotional bank
The balance of warmth vs negativity — strong couples keep 5 to 1.
Readiness to reconcile
After a fight or a thought of divorce — are you ready to rebuild.
Triangle of love (Sternberg)
Intimacy, passion, commitment — what type of love you have.
Love maps: do you know your partner
How detailed your map of your partner’s inner world is.
Why you stay
What your “we’re together” rests on (the investment model).
Couple burnout
The level of emotional exhaustion in the marriage.
Do you feel understood
Partner responsiveness: are you understood, valued, supported.
Turning toward
How you respond to your partner’s bids for connection.
Relationship satisfaction
A quick thermometer: how good it feels together now.
Forgiveness in relationships
Can you let go of grievances rather than store them.
Fairness of daily life
How fairly chores and decisions are shared.
Boundaries with the family of origin
Is your couple a separate system or a “branch” of relatives.
Mutuality quadrant: is it good for both of you
Two axes — “good for me” and “good for my partner”. Works for past relationships too.