Case. One partner constantly compares their relationship to “perfect” couples online and feels “ours is worse”.
Model. Monitoring by false metrics: a showcase isn’t the logs of a real system but a marketing dashboard. Comparison distorts the assessment of your own marriage.
What helped. They switched off comparison with showcases and returned attention to their own real closeness metrics.
Lesson. Someone’s social feed is a rendered landing page, not system logs.
See Emotional bank.